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Back off, get your own sandwich! A commercial that used to make me laugh at such a cheesy line made worse by it's kung fu choreography suddenly serves purpose metaphorically on certain things I would like to voice my opinion on. If you are smart, you will get that message, and if not, continue reading between the lines. You wanted beige.

And so I carry on about my week on this less than desirable hump day and my extremely sparse alcohol intake is suddenly gripping me by the nips. I need a dirty martini, a bubble bath and some music although I would also accept a speed bag and some leather gloves as a substitute as it would serve the same stress relieving purpose I long for. Truthfully, I don't like when people tell me I "can't" do something. I am not talking policy, I am talking the can and cant's of life. I choose to surround myself with people who motivate, who encourage, and who always stand by each other when the going gets tough. Those are what true friendships and relationships are made of. If you tell me "I can't" not only will I show you I CAN, but I will also not hesitate to flick your de-motivational ass to the back of my bus full of awesome. That's just me. If you don't want to be positive and supportive, then oops, sorry, all seats are taken! Real talk.

Sometimes people need to seriously vent it out. This is MY place to vent it out. My blog. I started this in 2010 when a former boyfriend threw me across our condo so hard that the furniture I was lobbed into moved across the floor. My core was fucking shook and I started a rehabilitation process to change the way my life was headed. I'm not some sappy chick that had a few rough goings, I had a shit storm of messed up tragedy for a period of two years before I finally picked my heart up off of the floor, and marched forward with my mascara running, but fists clenched tightly. It was time to fight back. Two years later, I have developed a writing style, am getting closer to my dream, nabbed and conquered a kick ass career, and made strong progress in my personal relationships. In other words, I worked my ass of, I focused and I succeeded! I deserve a mirror image of my life efforts daily. If you have a problem with my blog, my strength, my spine or my happiness, then either stop reading or let me be on my way. And with that, I am officially single!

"A successful woman is one who can build a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at her".

Ciao xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

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